Monday, March 10, 2025

Harold

     I don’t believe my uncle Harold Cline Owen ever had a settled life. His parents divorced when he was a toddler, about the time his baby brother David was born. As a young boy, he and Davey were sent west to live with his father and stepmother. It’s doubtful that he went to school while living in Oregon. He certainly didn’t go to school much once he hit his teens because his kidneys were failing.

     It started when he was a little fellow. He and my dad walked to school in a cold pouring rain. Soaked through, they slogged through the mud. Harold had to urinate and looked forward to reaching the school’s toilet, but once he got there, the old school marm, as she was called, punished him for being late to class.  She would not let him use the lavatory. She made him hold it in and then only let him use the facilities during lunch. By that time, the boy was in so much pain. He still had to walk home after school.

     A doctor came and said that an infection had set into Harold’s kidneys and he was also affected by the low temperatures. The word for it is hypothermia. The young child’s fever spiked with the bacteria that had flourished. Harold had uremia and nearly died.

     Sometimes other kids in the neighborhood would pick on Harold for being sickly. Harold thought his way out of those predicaments. He didn’t want to look cowardly so he’d say, “Aw, I could lick all of you. Even my baby brother could fight you and beat you!” Then just to prove they could, they’d go after David and knock him around once they caught the boy. David learned how to throw punches which served him later in life.

     After so much family upheaval, traveling from Detroit to Oregon and back again, and a weakened body, Harold stayed home from school. What was the use of a formal education if you were going to die anyway?

     About 1947 in a little town called Rockwood in Michigan, Harold lived on a farm with his mother Zona, stepfather Roy and youngest brother David. The teen had a pig that he’d raised from the time it was a piglet. It was named Houdini after the famed escape artist. The two played together, spending the hours like best friends do. He taught Houdini tricks like he would have taught a dog. Wherever Harold went, Houdini followed, through corn patches, fields, and along the road. Sometimes Harold would eat out of the field. He could eat a large onion just like he would an apple. There were other things to graze on along the way. He’d share the scraps with Houdini as a reward for sitting, shaking hands (hooves) and other tricks. The months passed. Houdini was becoming a boar. Harold was losing his sight and wearing glasses.

     In the evenings, Houdini would rest in his pen, and Harold would read. Just because he didn’t go to school didn’t mean Harold couldn’t read for fun! The two grew together for a year until one day Houdini turned on his master.

     It was sudden and unexpected. Houdini had been escaping his pen several times a week and going into gardens, snuffling up the ground, then eating the crops. Usually, the hog would comply and leave with Harold, but not this time. The ever-growing boar not only bit him, it injured the young man’s hand deeply. Roy asked his stepson what he wanted to do, since it was his pig. It was a fair enough question.

     “Kill that pig and cook it up!” came Harold’s answer. Roy slaughtered that hog, a little earlier than the usual season which was generally October or November. With a dangerous animal, you just don’t wait. Infection settled into the boy and he was treated as well as he could for it.

     Weeks later, Harold was at the kitchen table, his nose in a book. He said, “Could somebody turn on the lights, I can’t read!”

     His mother, Zona said, “They’re already on, Son.”  Apparently Harold thought that someone, most likely David, had turned out the lights as a prank.

     “Mother! I can’t see!” he cried, realizing his sight had complete failed. In the hospital, it was said to be a result of prolonged kidney disease and sudden failure. No doctor could save the boy.

     In the forties, dialysis machines and their role in treating kidney disease were in their early stages of development. Using one of those machines might have prolonged Harold’s life, but there were none in Michigan at that time. Dutch physician Willem Kolff was just beginning his use of very primitive practical artificial kidneys in the 1940’s.  Doctors Leonard Skeggs and Jack Leonards had a workable system in nearby Cleveland, Ohio. Neither apparatus was ready for regular use by patients.

     On September 21, 1948, less than a day or two after being struck by blindness, Harold Cline Owen expired from acute Bright’s disease, most likely exacerbated by infection brought on by the hog attack. At the time, there was no treatment for Harold’s condition.

     He was only eighteen.




Monday, March 3, 2025

Just Doing Her Job


     It's been a month since I posted to my blog. First, I had the flu which took me out of commission for several days, then I was out of town with my sisters- in-law and some nieces. Today I have a moment to write, only because I spent the day at my doctor’s office, then to a hospital, the nearest one that had availability for a scan. So now, I must relax, but my idea of relaxing is to keep busy. That’s just the way my mind works.

     Over the decades I have had a multitude of problems from physical to mental, from accident caused, to disease. I won’t give details today except to admit that I mask them well. Not many people know this, but I have a psychiatric service dog. A service animal is different than a therapy pet or emotional support dog. A service dog performs a task that is needed by the patient. In the case of sight-impaired people, they are guided by their canine companions. Some of our furry co-workers pick up objects or provide a strong support for their humans to get up off the floor if they’ve fallen. Some will indicate that the diabetic human they serve has rapidly falling blood sugar and for young, busy people this actually does save lives. Teddi provides grounding and a sense of safety. I’ll explain more about that later.

     A service dog, in most states, is recommended by one or more medical professional. They are trained for specific jobs. These canines (and sometimes horses) are a little different than our furry friends that are there, just as our friends and companions, in that SD’s are allowed everywhere: clinics, restaurants, salons, museums, concerts etc.

     I personally do not anticipate taking Teddi to a restaurant unless it has outdoor seating. I never dine alone. I won’t take her to medical or physical therapy appointments, although my physical therapist says Teddi is welcome any time. I don’t need her at work, but I have had her at my feet, in the past, while I type reports and greet clients. Many people have their SD by their side every moment. It is their choice, need, and right. Please, do not distract their dogs or harass the team. Err on the side of caution. Be kind. When I need Teddi is mainly at night and specific situations due to my PTSD. My mind takes me back to certain moments and Teddi brings me back to reality.

     Several days ago, once I felt well enough to go for a short walk, I took Teddi to a mall. I’ve met other people there in the past that ask A LOT of questions. I appreciate it when these shoppers and walkers ask first before petting, and wait for an answer. Teddi is very accommodating. Many people ask me why she doesn’t wear a vest. The answer is, some SD’s do wear vests but it is not required by law. Wearing a vest encumbers Teddi from some tasks. Add to that, anyone can buy a vest online, slap it on a dog and it will look authentic. Chances are that dog will still bark, nip, lunge and pee indoors. Service dogs will bark to signal that their human needs help, but will not yap in public continuously.

     It’s because of these liars, many people assume most service dogs and owners are fakes. Some malls will remove all dogs including service dogs, which is against the law and breaks ADA rules. I’ve had it happen in another town, but left quietly (and injured myself) because my anxiety was getting the better of me during the harassment. 

     On our most recent jaunt to the closest mall, the guard on duty and I did more talking than I did walking. I’ve met a couple of the security officers there over the months and they are pretty good about Teddi. This guard didn’t recognize me at first, but when he remembered me, we visited and talked about PTSD and his time in the service of our country, the men he lost, injuries and survivor’s guilt. I saw that he was desperately fighting back his emotions. His eyes began to water. Teddi stood up on her legs, touched his chest and looked into his eyes. She put pressure on him and he began to calm. He said, “She’s doing her job.”

     I said, “Yes, Sir. She’s just doing her job.”

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